• Feminism.

    Feminism is a multi-dimensional word that has several different meanings to women and men all over the world. The official definition is: The definition to a feminist is as followed: To me it means you support women and by supporting women, you support and also respect women for what she (the individual) wants. Every woman is different and wants different things. So for you to be a feminist I feel you should accommodate every woman differently because we are not all the same. Everyone should be aware of the pay gap between men and women The working woman is here and as more and more women choose to be in the workforce…

  • Why every woman should take a solo trip

    Hey hey heyyyy, So I took my first solo trip in June 2018 to Washington D.C and it was an amazing time. Being by myself going at my own pace and seeing exactly what I wanted to see, was such a liberating feeling. What I want to talk about today is why every woman should take their own trip and other women/ people’s reaction to me traveling alone. So let’s begin! Top reasons why you should travel alone – The freedom!! It gives a sense of independence, duh and the fun of meeting new people or not! The freedom, imagine, you always travel with people and have to plan and…

  • Life Updates

    Hey there! Gosh, I have missssssed this. I haven’t written a blog post in a couple months and I’m going to explain why and everything else going on in my life. I do want to say thank you for sticking with me and the blog. It can only get better from here! So update 1: I am blogging again. Nothing big, except a whole rebranding! Why was I away? I had a really negative relationship with social media and the blogging world. I actually met some slimy people which sucked and my self worth was deteriorating all because of “likes” and “followers.” Now I have a whole new mindset to the whole…

  • Independence

    Hello, independent people who don’t let anyone hold them back from accomplishing their dreams. Today I am going to talk about something that means a lot to me and its independence. As a woman, I was taught to always go somewhere with someone (preferably a man). Now that I am 22 years old I am realizing how unnecessary it is to always have someone by your side. This year, 2018 it was my mission to start going to things by myself and create my own sense of independence and now I’m here to tell you how awesome and exciting it can be! When exploring a city or going to an event alone it…

  • New year new me! (kind of)

    Hey everyone! First let me give recognition to everyone of you that voted, thanks for the help and I appreciate the participation! So I know everyone says “new year new me” Well for me I am really going to try to do this while still being the old me (the cool parts though). This list is a compilation of things I haven’t done yet and things I should really start with. Each one is something I really want to accomplish which makes me have to ask, what are your resolutions? What are you going to accomplish in 2018? If you see something on my list you want to do or…

  • It’s my blog and I’ll write when I want to.

    It’s been a while since I wrote and I’m trying something different. I’m going to be more detailed and not condense words or sentences, so hear we go! Hi! I’ve missed writing on the blog so much. My life is picking up and like I said when I first started this I was scared I would lose my grip on it. I’m still trying to make it happen but here’s my thought process through it all. First I haven’t been writing a lot because I was putting writing for someone else before my own. Honestly, I still haven’t finished it and it’s bothering me. I just want it done. It’s…

  • Let’s Get Organized!

    Boom! (That’s me coming back with a bang). Hello, ladies and gents and happy November 1st! I love November, its such a calm month, a month to reflect on the year and yourself and be thankful for everything you have and how far you’ve come. It’s also the calm before the storm of Christmas! As you may have noticed I didn’t write last week and that is because I was getting things ready for Halloween and for my 1,000 follower giveaway! Official social media announcement goes out Monday November 6th. But wow, how exciting! There’s a thousand (and then some) of you chickens out there following along with me, I…

  • Why you should be doing more Yoga

    Yoga is the best medicine you can give your body, I swear by this. Here’s my explanation as to why it is. I wanted to talk about this because it is #MotivationalMonday but also #MindfulMondayWithSay. So today on how to be mindful let’s talk about something really important to me which I believe everyone should implement in their life because it will make your mind, heart, body and soul happy which is what everyone needs and that thing is yoga. I got into yoga back in the beginning of high school and I can tell you I honestly hated it and its beautiful because I totally understand why now. Back…

  • Cute and Inexpensive Halloween Costumes

    So Halloween is officially 24 days away and for those who havent decided what to be yet, where to get it from, how much they really want to spend on a costume, this one is for you. Honestly, who actually gets their costume from Party City or a Halloween store? No judgment, personally I’m not spending $50+ on something I’ll wear for one night. I will buy bits and pieces from different places which makes more sense to me. So I’ve come up with a list of 12 cute and inexpensive Halloween costumes, some which you can do with your partner or rock the look on your own . Either way,…

  • Mental Health is a thing people

    This week is Mental Health Awareness week so I thought for today I would give you guys suggestions on how to improve your mental heath status overall. What I am going to list are things I do myself which have helped me and I hope you try them out to improve your mental health too. Anyone and everyone can benefit from this, even if you think “nothings wrong.” We can all be a little bit better than we are right now so why not take the steps to be exactly that? A little better. Without further hesitation and taking up precious time, here we go. 1. Write it all down I…